WHY PEOPLE MARRY AND OTHERS DON'T

Here are some quotes to inspire you....)

I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry.
That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste.
David Bissonette

When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.
Sacha Guitry

After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can't face each other, but still they stay together.
Hemant Joshi

By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. Socrates

Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.
Dumas

The great question... which I have not been able to answer... is, "What does a woman want?
Sigmund Freud

I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me.
Anonymous

"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."
Henny Youngman

"I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years."
Sam Kinison

"There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage."
James Holt McGavran

"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me, and the second one didn't."
Patrick Murray

Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you're right, shut up.
Nash

The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once...
Anonymous

You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to.
Henny Youngman

My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.
Rodney Dangerfield

A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.
Milton Berle

Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy.
Anonymous

A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds: "Wife wanted". Next day he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."
Anonymous

First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

Recognize the signs of cheating. These five signs of cheating will save you time and heartache.

Loss of Sex Drive
Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere.

Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for signs of aggressiveness from your partner.

Host of Excuses
They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a client, can all be signs of cheating.

Telephone Hang-Ups
If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner. Be on the look out for frequent hang-ups.

Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of infidelity.


Please do keep in mind that none of these signs are guarantees of a cheating partner. They are only indicators, and the more of them you see, the higher the chances something is going on. Communicate with your partner if you feel something is going on, and you'll give your relationship the best shot at surviving over the long haul.

Well, what can I say? This is another day for me...

I was to lazy to wake up early this morning, so I was caught up in the middle of traffic going to work. It was so annoying to be stuck there considering that my day is just starting... What a way to start my day. I bet my entire day would be so bad... hehehe...

Anyway, last night I was very happy with how things went in our house. My older brother was already expressing his feelings and anxieties to us... Well, for the past few days he was very upset and depressed because he didn't pass his examination. He didn't interact with us. He stayed in his room most of the time due to frustrations or depressions. He's a Law student, you know. I can really testify that he had prepared so damn hard for that exam. He even reviewed in an outstanding university just to make sure that he'll make it. If I were to rate his efforts during his preparation, I would give him 200% for it. He studied 8 hours a day, burning his midnight candle until late at night or even early in the morning the next day...He never failed to ask for God's guidance and we all know that GOD was with him the entire time he was preparing and during the time that he took the EXAM. For him, he didn't make any room for errors or failures, that's why when the result came out and he knew that he didn't pass he was so frustrated or even angry.

I know, his reactions were all normal as a result of failure. And all in the family understand him. We didn't blame him for any reason. We didn't judge his capacities to pass the exam. We didn't criticize him. But instead, we supported him for we know that this has been the biggest trial he has ever encountered. My parents, especially my mother was greatly affected by the situation not because my brother failed, but because my brother was very depressed. My mom couldn't stand seeing my brother in that condition. That's why our family's burden became heavier.

We just let things as they were for a few days. We didn't force my brother to speak up or to express his feelings. We waited for the right time for him to verbalize his thoughts in his own free will... And that right time was last night. We were all in the living room watching TV after our dinner, and then he arrived from work (He's a Korean English tutor as of the moment). And then, unexpectedly he talked to us... He said his frustrations to us... And with that, I know that this has lessened his anxieties. My parents and our eldest brother (who is the provider for our family when it comes to our finances) gave him advises and words of encouragement. I also did the same thing... i guess providing moral and emotional support is the only thing I could offer him. We also planned his review for the next exam, he is going to retake. And I think it's a good thing, because it's one way of moving on from his failure.

At this time, he's already preparing and studying again. I'm praying that the next time, he is going to make it and he will become a very good lawyer. His next exam will be this September... I believe that God has plans for my brother, and HE has a reason why HE didn't let my brother pass... Still With God's grace and guidance, I believe that he will now reach his goal of passing the exam!!!

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you:  let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,   loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.

Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with  us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.

And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means  that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's  part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got  the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in  good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know  whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.

And if it takes  too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was  never intended for your life, then you need to...... LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...... LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth..... LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ....... LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction...... LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ...... LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude....... LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...... LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him...... LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....... LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves...... LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ......... LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to...... LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for you!!! LET IT GO!!! Get Right or Get Left ... think about it, and then .... LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"

Guyz... do you wonder how a kiss from someone means? Or maybe you're confused about someone's feelings towards you... Then maybe you could interpret his/her kiss...

Kiss on the hand - I adore you.

Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends.

Kiss on the chin - You are cute!

Kiss on the neck - I want you.

Kiss on the lips - I love you.

Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun.

Kiss anywhere else - You're the best.