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Is there anyone out there who has found their true love trough internet and maybe even from another country? If how did the things work out? |
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i've been with my gurlfirend now for a few months and we met online. People have said to me that it wont work because she lives a few 100 miles away. but what is travelling? its nothing really, and im hopefuli going to uni up near london so i will be closer to her. it's worked for me before, so im hopeing it'll work again. aww and congrats on the fact you married the gurl u met  |
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Maybe it's just me but things don't always work out. Sorry to bring down the mood but it's not always a success story and I think it's best to keep that in mind. |
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| floron: Maybe it's just me but things don't always work out. Sorry to bring down the mood but it's not always a success story and I think it's best to keep that in mind. True, but isn't this the case in "real world" too? Internet or not, things don't always work out. Actually things probably fail to work out most of the time. It's not easy to find the perfect match. Sometimes it's best to be naive, forget about all the past experiences and just go for it blind, taking the risk!  |
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| Jani: True, but isn't this the case in "real world" too? Internet or not, things don't always work out. Actually things probably fail to work out most of the time. It's not easy to find the perfect match. Sometimes it's best to be naive, forget about all the past experiences and just go for it blind, taking the risk! I agree that it's the case in the real world as well, but my point is not to get one's hopes built up too high because the possibility of failure is always present. The way this thread was going was portraying online dating as some sort of land of milk and honey which it is not. I was just bringing an aspect of realism into the conversation. "The hardest part is not in never falling but in rising every time you fall." It takes a very strong person to keep getting back up I think. It's almost completely impossible to forget ones past experiences especially negative ones (Unless you develop a mental disorder). It is impossible on not only an individual level but also on a social, cultural and historic level. I don't think even if it was possible that it would be a good idea because, if you do that sort of thing then you might end up making the same mistakes over and over. It has often been said that repeating the same action (with a known outcome) multiple times expecting to see a different result is a sign of madness. I also think it shows no personal growth. People should learn from their mistakes and the mistakes of others. That said however it is unfair to close oneself off from possible positive future experiences just because of a negative event in one's past. |
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| Logic says that its a fact. Logic dictates that love can be found anywhere. Too bad logic takes a summer break,the second one falls in love huh?  |
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| I met my girlfriend at the internet... we played the same game and are now almost a year together... So it does exist |
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My husband is from other country ,but we didn`t meet on web world, and even sometimes we speak different languages (sometimes literaly...) we get along very well . And I do think that weblove can exist ...the only problem can appear when the 2 people that get along very well on net , meet and realise they don`t realy understand each other...  |
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I met my crush throw MSN and now we have talking on MSN almost every day. I just feel that it`s so easy to talk with this guy about everything  Hopefully this crush will lead to something more... But there`s only one problem: he lives in Turkey andI live in Finland!  But when I read Janis story, it doesn`t really feel so unreachable anymore...  |
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| i am still trying st find my soulmate on the internet, i think that it can be a good way to find love, and if you don´t find love, you can always find friends.  |
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